Our deepest condolences to you all. May your faith, love, and wonderful memories help you get through this very difficult time. Steve will be greatly missed and touched the lives of many. We will all miss his smile, humor, and kindness.
Steve was an amazing example of servanthood, an example we should all follow. He was as humble a man as I have ever met. Always giving credit to others and deflecting it from himself. His priorities were with the kids, not on winning. That made him a winner. Again, an example we should emulate.
He was an incredible father and husband.
Anthony, you make be thinking that you want to grow up to be just like him. Your father would want you to be even better than that. Follow his example.
Joyce, that may be the first and last time you see me cry, especially in uniform. Tellls ya something about my love for Steve, you and Anthony.
Glenda let me know of your loss of Steve and I want to tell you how very sorry I am.
I know this is a very hard time for both of you and I wanted to tell you my heart goes out to you.
I hope that you are surrounded by those you love and you can draw strength from them. I can’t imagine the void you are feeling right now. I know that the memory and spirit of Steve lives within in both of you and all the other lives that he touched.
Joyce, Anthony, Bobbie, Katy, Chrissy, Don — You are all in my constant thoughts and prayers. I know that you all will have the strength to bear this unbearable and devastating loss, but I wish with all my heart that it had not happened. There is so much pain now and in the days ahead, but you will have each other to help you through, and you’ll have all your friends and family who knew Steve and loved him for the gentle good soul he is. And you’ll have your and their memories of him. Steve was — above all such a sweet, happy man who loved his family, took care of them and shared himself and all the goodness in him with all of you. What he shared with you doesn’t go away. When you are feeling loneliest and most in need, you’ll find his spirit within you, and he will be the one comforting you even though he’s physically gone. We’re keeping you in our hearts and holding you close.
Steve Aiello was one of our earth’s really Good Guys.
Always asking about others, always making you feel like you were the best. Never complaining (except when someone would disrespect to the baseball fields!), a consummate friend, compassionate about his family, honest and caring, sincere and loyal, respected and loved.
I will miss him terribly. He was a true giant among men.
Someone we all can be thankful for knowing. Always putting others before himself, Steve would brighten my day whenever I was lucky enough to see him. I loved him like a brother, and I will try to be a little bit more like Steve so that the world is a better place. Rest in Peace Big Guy.
God must have need you awfully bad up there in Heaven to have taken you away from us. It just doesn’t seem fair, but you will make Heaven a much better place.
Like a comet blazing across the evening sky,
gone too soon.
Like a rainbow fading in the blink of an eye,
gone too soon.
Shining, sparkling, and splendidly bright,
here one day, gone one night.
Like the thoughts of sunlight on a cloudy afternoon,
gone too soon.
It seems he was born to amuse, inspire and delight,
here one day, gone one night.
Like a sunset fading with the rising of the moon,
Steve is gone too soon.
Take care of your mama, Little T,
Just like your Daddy would want you to.
May the Lord help you find the strength in
the love everyone has for you both, and
in the love we have for your wonderful
husband and father.
Joyce and Anthony,
My deepest condolences to you and yours. Steve’s passing has come as such an incredible shock to us all. Now is the time to turn to your family and friends for support – and we will all be there for you.
Just know that Steve will always be watching over you, guiding and protecting, as he always has. His spirit will forever surround you.
He was the kindest, most sincere and selfless person I have ever had the honor to know… and for that I am forever grateful.
We started the original “Green Team” together with Frank and Bill. We had a special bond and worked well together over the years. Steve would never put off until tomorrow what he could do today. He seemed to live by the motto to “never trouble another for what you can do yourself,” though he was quick to volunteer to help others whenever asked. He recognized that there is dignity in hard work. My favorite memories of times I shared with Steve include time on baseball fields long after and before the people were there; one year when we went to the Rose Bowl with Nathaniel and Ben; nights in the Martini Lounge. Steve loved me and my family. I love Steve and his family, Joyce and Anthony.
sad to know Steve is gone…so soon. I know he is in a better place now, he will be missed. Our deepest condolences to you and Anthony. May he rest in peace. Always – The De Leon Family ( Rudy, Liza and Randall )
I feel privileged to have been to have known Steve from the time we first met in the office in 2003. He was simply one of the kindest, caring, thoughtful, centered, compassionate and mature men I have ever met. His love of family knew no boundaries. What a great example for others. May you, Joyce, and Anthony be comforted by the knowledge that Steve dearly touched so many lives in unintended ways.
I am so shocked and bewildered to hear that Steve passed away. When I think of Steve Aiello immediately a smile comes to my face. I worked with Steve for about 4 years and we shared many laughs together. I would always love it when Steve would crank the radio up in the mail room and Rap all the Snoop Dog songs that played. He made our work enviorment so enjoyable. Stevo was a great father as well. I remember thinking when i have a lil one I want to have a relationship like Steve had Anthony. Fattherhood was huge in Steve’s life, and I think I’m a better father because of what Steve showed me. Big A. Keep Slugging, your father’s spirit will continue to live through you. I will always remember Stevo.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and Anthony at this most difficult time. Remember the smiles and the laughter and all the special moments. They will be with you forever, as Steve will live in your hearts and minds, as he will in all the people he touched. He loved both of you so much. He was a great man. Everytime someone remembers or speaks of Steve, he is there and it is a curtin call and I know his curtin calls will have no end.
To borrow a few words from a beautiful song:
and there’s holes in the floor of heaven and his tears are pouring down
that’s how you know he’s watching wishing he could be here now and sometimes when you’re lonely just remember he can see there’s holes in the floor of heaven and he’s watching over you and me.
With my deepest symapthies
Kathy Platts
(LJDFA 1997-2002
Dear Joyce and Anthony,
I’m so sorry to hear about Steve. You and Steve will always be such a vibrant part of my favorite memories of Toluca (“Remember the Ravens!”). I have never been part of a team before or since that bonded the way the Pinto Ravens did back in 2001, and you all were integral to that. Joyce, you and Steve were proof positive that my attempts to draft by parents more than players was the most rewarding thing to do. I miss those times, but most of all I miss the people who were a part of them.
Aiello Family: Our hearts ache for you. We were so sorry to hear about Steve’s passing. Anytime we ever had the pleasure of being around him he was smiling, kind, just a decent human being. Olivia recalls always thinking what a good family man he was, especially as father to Anthony and husband to Joyce. Joe, Glenda & Kevin– we love you and pray for warmth and comfort for all of you.. Ruben, Olivia, Chistian & boys.
Our deepest condolences on your loss. Joe and Glenda – you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Know that your brother is watching over you in heaven and will be with you always.
Our prayers are with you and know that your family and friends will carry though this difficult time in love and support.
My prayers are with you now during this sudden loss. I pray the Lord will bring comfort and peace to your hearts. Please know that the Parent Advisory Board of Bell Jeff is praying for you. Liza Sanguinetti, PAB President
I am very sorry to hear about your brother Steve. I know words cannot ease the pain or sense of loss you and your family are feeling, but know that I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
We all had different relationships with Steve — he was my uncle, maybe your friend or your coworker, for example. None of those labels, though, does him or the relationship any of us had with him justice.
There was no kinder or more selfless person in this world, and I am honored to have not only known him, but have been a part of his family. Steve did more for each of us than we will ever really know. He did things for each of us with a smile and without complaint…always. He was so supportive; you could have no bigger cheerleader. (Who else do you know that would have changed a lifetime of rooting for Trojans to become the biggest Bruin fan, through and through, when I got accepted there?) He was so caring; he always knew what to say, when to just listen, or when to be the shoulder to cry on. He was always lending a hand, be it mowing a field, running an errand, helping you move– anything you can imagine, he was there to help. But most of all, I think he helped us all become better people. If we could all continue to learn from his wonderful example –to love one another and help one other selflessly and unconditionally– we will do him proud.
So, I’d like to suggest coining a new label. Steve wasn’t my uncle or your friend or coworker. He was yours and my “Steve.” The only thing I can think is that God must have needed a “Steve,” and there was only one in this world. I’ll miss him each and every day as I’m sure you will too.
Words cannot express the sadness our family feels for the loss of Steve. Many people search a lifetime to find a compassionate friend and devoted husband like Steve and never find such a match. We all were the fortunate ones to have had Steve in our lives with the most privileged being Joyce and Anthony. May you both be blessed with the precious memories of the unconditional love you three have shared. Knowing that Steve left such a legacy for all of us to continue warms my heart the best it could.
We will always remember the honor and respect that he gave to everyone that surrounded him. We have learned through Steve and this is how he will continue to live in our hearts.
Joyce and Anthony, you both will always have a family in the Perez’, anytime…anyplace…you can always depend on us.
Our sincere condolences from the Moses Family. I never saw Steve when he wasn’t trying to help out doing anything and everything over at the Toluca baseball fields. Humble and kind to all, he will be missed in this world. God bless.
Selfless is the word that comes to mind when we think of Steve. A couple of years ago, the entire Aiello family volunteered to help at the Fourth of July festival on the CBS lot. Normally, we have about 14 volunteers handle the clean-up and maintenance of all the bathrooms. We gave Steve and Anthony a golf cart, and made them our bathroom runners – with the instructions that they were supposed to supply the 14 volunteers with what they needed. Within half an hour Steve determined that he and Anthony could do the entire job themselves, and we were able to use the other volunteers elsewhere. Never before and never since has that job been handled so efficiently.
Another thing we will never forget, is the day the family came to visit us in the hospital after our car accident (it was one of several visits). Anthony and Steve had picked out an antique glove from their baseball collection to give to Julian when he woke up. We were touched by the gesture, but didn’t truly understand the meaning of their generosity until Julian woke up a few days later and one of the first things he asked for was his baseball glove. Since it was the only glove we had in the hospital, we gave it to him, and tried to help him put his hand in it. We put the wrong hand in, and Julian immediately told us we were doing it wrong, took it from us, and did it himself. It was one of those amazing moments when we knew Julian was going to be okay.
Joyce and Anthony, our hearts ache for you today, and we pray that the many wonderful memories you and so many others have of Steve will sustain you through this impossibly difficult time.
Our thoughts and prayers go to you, Joyce and Anthony.
Steve always had kind words for Rich and I, especially
after a tough game we umpired. His great spirit will
always remain with us. God bless. – Rob and Rich Allen
Joyce,
I was so shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Steve’s untimely passing. Having suddenly lost my partner of many years about 7 years ago, I have an idea what you’re experiencing and you are in my prayers. I wish you and yours all the healing that the love of family and friends…and time…will bring.
Dear Joyce and Anthony,
We just heard this shocking, heartbreaking news. The entire Barton family loved Steve dearly. A million thoughts and memories are mixed with our tears as we write this. The glove Steve gave Kynan and his constant offer to get Anthony to catch for him. Hearing Steve say “Hi Duke” to Earl with a huge smile on his face and happily volunteering to drive the golf cart on July 4th. Darby will miss her favorite hot dog man at NHH football games. We will miss his smiling face popping out of the door to chat while we wait for band practice to end. So many good memories. Such a giving, caring person. He must already be busy in heaven volunteering for angel’s work, especially any work that involves helping kids enjoy sports.
I am so sorry and saddened to hear about your brother Steve. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Please know that your friends are here, too, and that you can count on us should you need anything in these difficult times.
Our deepest condolences to the Aiello family especially Joyce and Anthony.
it was fun having steve coach me through the years i have played baseball and it is sad to see someone who has taught me so much about the sport go like that. Steve was a cool guy and it was fun going to cooperstown with him it was a cool experience going since i never went when i was little. There were so many memories we had with Steve and he will be missed dearly. We will always be here if you guys were ever to need anything.
sincerely,
Mark and the rest of the Navarro Family
Aiello Family:
My deepest condolences to your family on your loss. It saddened me to hear that Steve is no longer among us. The Steve I knew was a gentle, caring man with family values that many could only dream of having. It was my pleasure to have worked side by side with him for over 5 years. There are so many good times and good memories that I remember from working together with him. One of the many things I admired about Steve, was that he loved his family with a passion. Family always came first.
Steve had a priceless gift of putting smiles on people’s faces and making them feel at ease. Steve will truly be missed.
GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY.
Dear Aiello family,
I was in Steve’s high school class of ’78 and we became good friends during that time. I live in Oregon now, and word of his passing has reached me. I am so saddened by this news. Our time together was fleeting but indelible. The last time I saw him was at our 20 year reunion, and as usual, he had me laughing out loud. Ken Morton, one of our h.s. teachers, is a good friend of mine and lives close by, and he and I were just sharing some fond memories of Steve on the 4th of July. We are both heartbroken for all of you and know that his absence will be deeply felt, and is by us as well. He had a way of making you feel like you were the most special person in his world whenever he saw you. My first name is Mahala, and he was one of the few people who called me by that name, only he added his own special pronunciation of it that always brought a smile to my face. He was a very special person with a very big heart… and I’ve missed him over the years and am so sad over this news. You are all in my thoughts and prayers now, and he is in my heart forever. May he rest in peace.
M. Jean (Fox) Anderson
Mike and I would like to express out deepest sympathies to Joyce and Anthony. And also to the families on both sides, as they have lost a brother, uncle, friend and brother in law. Mike and Sandy
It breaks our hearts and saddens us deeply that this has happened. Your family has been so incredibly kind to us, as well as so many others at Toluca and East Valley.
We will miss Steve and his big smile. He was always so easy to talk to and a pleasure to be around. We will always remember and be thankful for the time and dedication he put forth to helping make Toluca an incredible place to play baseball. His love for the game and Toluca may have been great, but the love that he had for his family and that you all shared with each other is truly inspirational.
Know that we love you both and if you need anything at all, or if you just want someone to talk to, we are here for you guys.
There are not any adequate words to sum up a man of Steve’s worth to myself and every life he touched. He was a friend to everyone he met and a brother to everyone he loved. It didn’t matter if you hadn’t seen him in a day or if years had passed, he would welcome you with a smile and a greeting/joke you could not help but to return with a smile and a laugh.
Steve’s friendship, love, kindness and compassion are shining examples for us to follow as a parent, husband, son, brother, uncle, friend and volunteer.
I will miss Steve and will forever remember his laugh, smile and the joy he instilled in those around him.
Joyce and Anthony, you’re in our thoughts and prayers. We’re one of the many Toluca Baseball families who have nothing but good memories of Steve and will remember him fondly forever.
I had the honor and privlidge to coach with Steve at Cooperstown. He is what friends are about…I don’t know a lot of people that two days before one of his best friends, Frank Micili, was scheduled to leave for Cooperstown and was unable to attend for medical reasons, would shut everything down to cover for his friend by taking a group of about 15 boys that he has not coached or work with across the country to play baseball. Thank you Steve for allowing me to coach with you in Cooperstown and learn from you as I saw how you interatcted with the players and your son.
Joyce and Anthony,
May God Bless you both and help you through this horrible time.
All of our prayers are with you. Steve was a great guy.
The Tunzi Family
The thing I remember the about Steve is his smile. Steve had a great smile. Everytime Cooper or I would run into him, that smile was there to greet us.
Someone once said that the measure of a mans greatness is in the number of friends he has. I considered Steve a friend, as did many others. He was a great guy, a great Dad and a great husband. He will be missed and he will be remembered fondly.
I was shocked when I heard that Steve had left us. I have known him for a long time and always lent me a kind ear when I needed someone to talk to or just enjoy a fine martini with. Steve was a kind soul that will be missed.
To Joyce, Anthony and the rest of the family, my thoughts and deepest sympathy goes out to you all.
We have a short time to make an impact on most and Steve was able to do that for me as well as my family. Steve is a worthy example to follow, a quality man who gave from is heart ever chance he got.
We may not be aware that we are being cherished, loved and remembered for generations, but there is no doubt we are.
I remember the RAVENS! Who knew a group of 7 & 8 year olds could do so much just playing a season of baseball. They touched our hearts just like Steve did and he helped create that enviornment of learning and working together. The kids were the stars and the parents were the fans, the best example of youth sports I’ve ever been part of. What a team!
Dear Joyce and Anthony,
Nice guys are hard to find. Steve was just so nice. I loved seeing him (and you all) at Miceli’s. I am really going to miss him. My thoughts and my prayers are with you. You are wonderful people and I care deeply.
I was blessed with the opportunity to know Steve both as a co worker and as a friend. There was not a more decent or generous person on this planet and he will be missed greatly. He doesn’t leave a mere hole or a chasm: He leaves an abyss.
Steve and I shared a love of popular music. He would have cleaned up on “Name That Tune” (60′s and 70′s version).
Steve worked in our office for many years. He was the glue that held the firm together. Like all office environments, ours can be a bit tribal, but Steve had the ability to get along well with everyone! If you wanted to grab lunch with him, you had to book a few days in advance, because his warm company was always in demand. When you walked to lunch in Downtown Los Angeles with Mr. Aiello, you would have to stop often while Steve spoke with every 7th person on the street. I called him “The Mayor Of Figueroa Street”. When news of his passing hit like a ton of bricks, it didn’t just hit our immediate office. The security guards, the delivery people, and the maintenance people were all shocked and saddened by the loss of those twinkling eyes and smiling face.
In the past, I could get Steve to meet me for a bike ride or grab him for a hockey or baseball game. That got more difficult over time because of his loving commitment to his family. There was always a baseball field to be groomed, or a game of catch to be had. His love of family was impressive. His computer screen bore the image of Anthony on the baseball field and his love of Joyce was worn openly.
Comfort for us all is elusive right now. Perhaps these words of Henry David Thoreau might help:
“Even the death of friends will inspire us as much as their lives…. Their memories will be encrusted over with sublime and pleasing thoughts, as monuments of other men are overgrown with moss; for our friends have no place in the graveyard.”
I want you to know that the Toluca Titans had an Angel in the out field at Cooperstown this past week. You could feel his presence.
We were shocked to hear about this tragic loss. JJ and I talked and said we would always remember when ever you saw Steve you would get a great smile and hug. He always had time to chat and enjoy the moment and you knew you would always get a helping hand. My favorite talks were not only about baseball but of the Rose Bowl Parade and his envolvement.
He will be missed, loved and never forgotten. The boys did him proud in Cooperstown and wore his initials on their hats with pride and respect. It was comforting to know he was up there keeping and eye on us. I wish you and Anthony the strength to move forward because Steve would not want it any other way. Peace be with you.
Joyce and Anthony – we only heard of Steve’s passing today – as we sit here with tears running down our face we remember the Toluca Games – and actually afterwards when we finally got to all go to dinner – and the laughs we had!!!! We remember the good times – the kids growing up – all of us saying we’ll get together soon – and all of our lives going in crazy directions. It is sad that we only get to tell each other how much fun and how much we loved our time together when something like this happens but if we hold on to the laughter, the fun and the great games we had – and times we had – we will never forget the Mo’s – and the little local bar that Chad and Anthony played darts and – can’t remember the name – but we will never forget the good times!! We will see you tomorrow – but our prayers are with you now!! Go Ravens and the late nights sitting together and laughing!! All of our Love!!!! Jim, Julie & Chad Eaton
Joyce and Anthony, We are very saddened to hear of Steve’s passing. We are very,very sorry about your loss and can truly say we know what you’re going through. When our lives got turned upside down last year I couldn’t image how I’d get through each day. The good news is you will and when you see or hear something that triggers tears neither of you should hold them back. It’s perfectly okay to empty your tear bucket. God Bless You both during this extraordinarily difficult time. With out deepest sympathy, Aleida and Eric Stones
We are shocked and saddened by the sudden loss of Steve. In my short time knowing him Wynn and I both found him to be a wonderful father and an amazing man. The time and dedication to Toluca Baseball, his smiling face that greeted many of us as we experienced our very first days/ season out on the beautiful fields that I once heard you call “his mistress.” He will be sorely missed. Our thoughts prayers and are with you both.
I want you to know that the Titans wore their hats with Steves’ initials on them with pride and respect. We did have an Angel in our outfield, you could feel Steve’s presence.
The one thing I remember about Steve is that whenever and wherever you saw him you would get a great smile and a hug. My favorite thing to talk to him about was the Rose Bowl Parade.
How Blessed we were to have known him and how blessed Anthony is to be so much like him.
On behalf of the entire Bohnett family, I would like to convey our deepest sympathy to the Aiello family, Steve’s wife, Joyce, and son, Anthony. Our families grew up a couple of blocks away from each other in San Roque, with Steve and my brother Anthony in the same grade. I remember Steve’s infectious smile and good humor…everybody loved to see Steve come around!
We are all very saddened by his passing. Our prayers are with you and hope that the memory of all that was good in Steve helps you through this painful time.
Much Love,
Claire (1 of the twins) & the rest of the Bohnetts
Joyce and Anthony, we were out of town when we heard the sad, sad, news and it pained us deeply that we could not be there for Steve’s services. Steve was one in a million. I’m sure, like everyone, Steve had bad days but I can honestly say that I never saw him in a sour mood. He never greeted you without a genuine smile. He was a good example for children and parents alike. His love and devotion for you, Joyce and Anthony, was always evident. I know his loss is profound and the pain great but know that if a man’s success is measured by the number of friends he leaves when he passes, then, Steve was one of the most successful men this town has ever produced. Joyce, Anthony, you will be in our prayers. May God bless you both. Buon’ Anema, Steve.
Dear Joyce and Anthony,
We all were so sorry to hear the news of Steve’s passing. We were unable to attend any of the serivces as we were moving our daughter up to college in SF this past weekend. Please know that we have your family in our thoughts and prayers. Memories are very powerful, and we know that you have many wonderful moments that you will cherish forever.
Take Care – Mark, Cyndi and Nick Morton
Our family has just returned from Cooperstown and I am fairly sure that Steve has taken up permanent residence at the Dreamspark. He and Hector were watching over the boys and girl all week as they excelled beyond all of our wildest imaginations. The kids wore his initial and he was always on our minds.
Anthony, as you pass through this impossible time of reconciling the loss of your wonderful daddy, I hope you will begin to see the blessing that God gave you in gracing you with an entire week with your dad in a place that was so special to both of you. We are so sorry to have missed the ceremony celebrating his life but what a tribute to your dad and to you and your mom to have so many of your dad’s friends present. There are literally thousands of people who are thinking of you daily and I hope that brings you some comfort.
Joyce, words can’t express how sorry we are for you and for Anthony. What a guy you married – from the nights in the Lounge, our New Years Eve card parties, Halloween dinners, Thanksgiving morning newspaper deliveries, “nutty” baseball problems, and the many days and nights of Toluca baseball. I’ll never forget how pissed Steve was when we used field #2 (outfield only of course) immediately after Steve sent out an email closing it due to rain. “Chris, I guess the rules don’t apply to you!” “Steve, You mean we couldn’t use the grass?” How lucky for my family that the two of you stopped by the house the Sunday before we left for NY and we shared an hour in my garage talking about Steve’s trip and his helpful reminders of the things we needed to bring.
You and Anthony have a new and different life in front of you now and I know that all of us stand ready to help you get on with it. We love you and Anthony so much.
Dearest Aiello Family,
I was a classmate of Steve’s in High School at Bishop, graduating class of 1978. I am so sad to hear the news of Steve’s passing. He was such a heartfelt soul, always smiling and always there! Although, I only shared 4 years in high school with him, he left a mark on my soul and I will miss his presence. The planet will miss his laughter, smile and un-ending support. I hope we all continue to feel the gift of his life around us.
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Nadine Kassity-Krich
I am very saddened by Steve’s passing and want to extend my deepest condolences and fond memories of a truly great man.
Throughout the several years of playing softball with Steve I can always remember his Wonderful Smile, Laugh and Positive Outlook. He was such a giver and a true Gentleman.
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August 18, 2009 at 4:41 am
Shoshana Harris-Hay
Our deepest condolences to you all. May your faith, love, and wonderful memories help you get through this very difficult time. Steve will be greatly missed and touched the lives of many. We will all miss his smile, humor, and kindness.
Sho and Family
August 18, 2009 at 5:46 am
Dave Valentine
Steve was an amazing example of servanthood, an example we should all follow. He was as humble a man as I have ever met. Always giving credit to others and deflecting it from himself. His priorities were with the kids, not on winning. That made him a winner. Again, an example we should emulate.
He was an incredible father and husband.
Anthony, you make be thinking that you want to grow up to be just like him. Your father would want you to be even better than that. Follow his example.
Joyce, that may be the first and last time you see me cry, especially in uniform. Tellls ya something about my love for Steve, you and Anthony.
May God continue to bless you all.
Dave
August 18, 2009 at 5:57 am
Hee-Sook Nelson
Hi Joyce and Anthony,
Glenda let me know of your loss of Steve and I want to tell you how very sorry I am.
I know this is a very hard time for both of you and I wanted to tell you my heart goes out to you.
I hope that you are surrounded by those you love and you can draw strength from them. I can’t imagine the void you are feeling right now. I know that the memory and spirit of Steve lives within in both of you and all the other lives that he touched.
Please take care of yourselves.
With love,
Hee-Sook
August 18, 2009 at 9:50 am
Mary Wawro and Peter Morrison
Joyce, Anthony, Bobbie, Katy, Chrissy, Don — You are all in my constant thoughts and prayers. I know that you all will have the strength to bear this unbearable and devastating loss, but I wish with all my heart that it had not happened. There is so much pain now and in the days ahead, but you will have each other to help you through, and you’ll have all your friends and family who knew Steve and loved him for the gentle good soul he is. And you’ll have your and their memories of him. Steve was — above all such a sweet, happy man who loved his family, took care of them and shared himself and all the goodness in him with all of you. What he shared with you doesn’t go away. When you are feeling loneliest and most in need, you’ll find his spirit within you, and he will be the one comforting you even though he’s physically gone. We’re keeping you in our hearts and holding you close.
With all our love,
Mary and Peter
August 18, 2009 at 3:54 pm
Frank Miceli
Joyce called him my “kindered spirit.” My wife, Vicki, called him “the other woman.” I am honored to call him “my friend.”
Frank
August 18, 2009 at 4:05 pm
BillyJ
Steve Aiello was one of our earth’s really Good Guys.
Always asking about others, always making you feel like you were the best. Never complaining (except when someone would disrespect to the baseball fields!), a consummate friend, compassionate about his family, honest and caring, sincere and loyal, respected and loved.
I will miss him terribly. He was a true giant among men.
Someone we all can be thankful for knowing. Always putting others before himself, Steve would brighten my day whenever I was lucky enough to see him. I loved him like a brother, and I will try to be a little bit more like Steve so that the world is a better place. Rest in Peace Big Guy.
God must have need you awfully bad up there in Heaven to have taken you away from us. It just doesn’t seem fair, but you will make Heaven a much better place.
Like a comet blazing across the evening sky,
gone too soon.
Like a rainbow fading in the blink of an eye,
gone too soon.
Shining, sparkling, and splendidly bright,
here one day, gone one night.
Like the thoughts of sunlight on a cloudy afternoon,
gone too soon.
It seems he was born to amuse, inspire and delight,
here one day, gone one night.
Like a sunset fading with the rising of the moon,
Steve is gone too soon.
Take care of your mama, Little T,
Just like your Daddy would want you to.
May the Lord help you find the strength in
the love everyone has for you both, and
in the love we have for your wonderful
husband and father.
August 18, 2009 at 4:07 pm
Teresa Hamilton
Joyce and Anthony,
My deepest condolences to you and yours. Steve’s passing has come as such an incredible shock to us all. Now is the time to turn to your family and friends for support – and we will all be there for you.
Just know that Steve will always be watching over you, guiding and protecting, as he always has. His spirit will forever surround you.
He was the kindest, most sincere and selfless person I have ever had the honor to know… and for that I am forever grateful.
Rest in Peace, my friend.
Teresa
August 18, 2009 at 4:21 pm
David Ludewig
We started the original “Green Team” together with Frank and Bill. We had a special bond and worked well together over the years. Steve would never put off until tomorrow what he could do today. He seemed to live by the motto to “never trouble another for what you can do yourself,” though he was quick to volunteer to help others whenever asked. He recognized that there is dignity in hard work. My favorite memories of times I shared with Steve include time on baseball fields long after and before the people were there; one year when we went to the Rose Bowl with Nathaniel and Ben; nights in the Martini Lounge. Steve loved me and my family. I love Steve and his family, Joyce and Anthony.
August 18, 2009 at 4:26 pm
Rudy de Leon
sad to know Steve is gone…so soon. I know he is in a better place now, he will be missed. Our deepest condolences to you and Anthony. May he rest in peace. Always – The De Leon Family ( Rudy, Liza and Randall )
August 18, 2009 at 5:43 pm
Howard Fields
I feel privileged to have been to have known Steve from the time we first met in the office in 2003. He was simply one of the kindest, caring, thoughtful, centered, compassionate and mature men I have ever met. His love of family knew no boundaries. What a great example for others. May you, Joyce, and Anthony be comforted by the knowledge that Steve dearly touched so many lives in unintended ways.
Howard Fields
August 18, 2009 at 6:16 pm
Lonnie Wright
I am so shocked and bewildered to hear that Steve passed away. When I think of Steve Aiello immediately a smile comes to my face. I worked with Steve for about 4 years and we shared many laughs together. I would always love it when Steve would crank the radio up in the mail room and Rap all the Snoop Dog songs that played. He made our work enviorment so enjoyable. Stevo was a great father as well. I remember thinking when i have a lil one I want to have a relationship like Steve had Anthony. Fattherhood was huge in Steve’s life, and I think I’m a better father because of what Steve showed me. Big A. Keep Slugging, your father’s spirit will continue to live through you. I will always remember Stevo.
Always,
Lonnie Wright
August 18, 2009 at 7:26 pm
Kathy Platts
My thoughts and prayers are with you and Anthony at this most difficult time. Remember the smiles and the laughter and all the special moments. They will be with you forever, as Steve will live in your hearts and minds, as he will in all the people he touched. He loved both of you so much. He was a great man. Everytime someone remembers or speaks of Steve, he is there and it is a curtin call and I know his curtin calls will have no end.
To borrow a few words from a beautiful song:
and there’s holes in the floor of heaven and his tears are pouring down
that’s how you know he’s watching wishing he could be here now and sometimes when you’re lonely just remember he can see there’s holes in the floor of heaven and he’s watching over you and me.
With my deepest symapthies
Kathy Platts
(LJDFA 1997-2002
August 18, 2009 at 7:49 pm
Charlie Cobean
Dear Joyce and Anthony,
I’m so sorry to hear about Steve. You and Steve will always be such a vibrant part of my favorite memories of Toluca (“Remember the Ravens!”). I have never been part of a team before or since that bonded the way the Pinto Ravens did back in 2001, and you all were integral to that. Joyce, you and Steve were proof positive that my attempts to draft by parents more than players was the most rewarding thing to do. I miss those times, but most of all I miss the people who were a part of them.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Charlie
August 18, 2009 at 8:04 pm
The Garcia's
Aiello Family: Our hearts ache for you. We were so sorry to hear about Steve’s passing. Anytime we ever had the pleasure of being around him he was smiling, kind, just a decent human being. Olivia recalls always thinking what a good family man he was, especially as father to Anthony and husband to Joyce. Joe, Glenda & Kevin– we love you and pray for warmth and comfort for all of you.. Ruben, Olivia, Chistian & boys.
August 18, 2009 at 9:55 pm
Michelle Acevedo
Our deepest condolences on your loss. Joe and Glenda – you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Know that your brother is watching over you in heaven and will be with you always.
Our prayers are with you and know that your family and friends will carry though this difficult time in love and support.
Michelle Acevedo
Noah Mahler
August 18, 2009 at 10:16 pm
Liza Sanguinetti
Dear Joyce & Anthony,
My prayers are with you now during this sudden loss. I pray the Lord will bring comfort and peace to your hearts. Please know that the Parent Advisory Board of Bell Jeff is praying for you. Liza Sanguinetti, PAB President
August 18, 2009 at 10:22 pm
Shonna Landers
Joe,
I am very sorry to hear about your brother Steve. I know words cannot ease the pain or sense of loss you and your family are feeling, but know that I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Love you,
Shonna
August 19, 2009 at 1:02 am
Katie
We all had different relationships with Steve — he was my uncle, maybe your friend or your coworker, for example. None of those labels, though, does him or the relationship any of us had with him justice.
There was no kinder or more selfless person in this world, and I am honored to have not only known him, but have been a part of his family. Steve did more for each of us than we will ever really know. He did things for each of us with a smile and without complaint…always. He was so supportive; you could have no bigger cheerleader. (Who else do you know that would have changed a lifetime of rooting for Trojans to become the biggest Bruin fan, through and through, when I got accepted there?) He was so caring; he always knew what to say, when to just listen, or when to be the shoulder to cry on. He was always lending a hand, be it mowing a field, running an errand, helping you move– anything you can imagine, he was there to help. But most of all, I think he helped us all become better people. If we could all continue to learn from his wonderful example –to love one another and help one other selflessly and unconditionally– we will do him proud.
So, I’d like to suggest coining a new label. Steve wasn’t my uncle or your friend or coworker. He was yours and my “Steve.” The only thing I can think is that God must have needed a “Steve,” and there was only one in this world. I’ll miss him each and every day as I’m sure you will too.
August 19, 2009 at 1:29 am
Julie Mersola
Joyce and Anthony,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you! We are so sorry for your loss. Steve was such a great and kind man.
Our love to you,
The Mersola’s (Cam, Julie, Madison, Dylan, and Slater)
August 19, 2009 at 3:18 am
Hector, Marina, Dani, Ali and Gabi
Words cannot express the sadness our family feels for the loss of Steve. Many people search a lifetime to find a compassionate friend and devoted husband like Steve and never find such a match. We all were the fortunate ones to have had Steve in our lives with the most privileged being Joyce and Anthony. May you both be blessed with the precious memories of the unconditional love you three have shared. Knowing that Steve left such a legacy for all of us to continue warms my heart the best it could.
We will always remember the honor and respect that he gave to everyone that surrounded him. We have learned through Steve and this is how he will continue to live in our hearts.
Joyce and Anthony, you both will always have a family in the Perez’, anytime…anyplace…you can always depend on us.
August 19, 2009 at 5:58 am
Mark Moses
Dear Joyce and Anthony,
Our sincere condolences from the Moses Family. I never saw Steve when he wasn’t trying to help out doing anything and everything over at the Toluca baseball fields. Humble and kind to all, he will be missed in this world. God bless.
Mark Moses
August 19, 2009 at 7:16 am
Esther and Mick Walker
Selfless is the word that comes to mind when we think of Steve. A couple of years ago, the entire Aiello family volunteered to help at the Fourth of July festival on the CBS lot. Normally, we have about 14 volunteers handle the clean-up and maintenance of all the bathrooms. We gave Steve and Anthony a golf cart, and made them our bathroom runners – with the instructions that they were supposed to supply the 14 volunteers with what they needed. Within half an hour Steve determined that he and Anthony could do the entire job themselves, and we were able to use the other volunteers elsewhere. Never before and never since has that job been handled so efficiently.
Another thing we will never forget, is the day the family came to visit us in the hospital after our car accident (it was one of several visits). Anthony and Steve had picked out an antique glove from their baseball collection to give to Julian when he woke up. We were touched by the gesture, but didn’t truly understand the meaning of their generosity until Julian woke up a few days later and one of the first things he asked for was his baseball glove. Since it was the only glove we had in the hospital, we gave it to him, and tried to help him put his hand in it. We put the wrong hand in, and Julian immediately told us we were doing it wrong, took it from us, and did it himself. It was one of those amazing moments when we knew Julian was going to be okay.
Joyce and Anthony, our hearts ache for you today, and we pray that the many wonderful memories you and so many others have of Steve will sustain you through this impossibly difficult time.
With love,
Esther, Mick, Carina and Julian
August 19, 2009 at 2:16 pm
Rob and Rich Allen
Our thoughts and prayers go to you, Joyce and Anthony.
Steve always had kind words for Rich and I, especially
after a tough game we umpired. His great spirit will
always remain with us. God bless. – Rob and Rich Allen
August 19, 2009 at 3:53 pm
Martin Zimmerman
Joyce,
I was so shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Steve’s untimely passing. Having suddenly lost my partner of many years about 7 years ago, I have an idea what you’re experiencing and you are in my prayers. I wish you and yours all the healing that the love of family and friends…and time…will bring.
My deepest condolences,
Martin
August 19, 2009 at 4:19 pm
Earl and Jeannie Barton
Dear Joyce and Anthony,
We just heard this shocking, heartbreaking news. The entire Barton family loved Steve dearly. A million thoughts and memories are mixed with our tears as we write this. The glove Steve gave Kynan and his constant offer to get Anthony to catch for him. Hearing Steve say “Hi Duke” to Earl with a huge smile on his face and happily volunteering to drive the golf cart on July 4th. Darby will miss her favorite hot dog man at NHH football games. We will miss his smiling face popping out of the door to chat while we wait for band practice to end. So many good memories. Such a giving, caring person. He must already be busy in heaven volunteering for angel’s work, especially any work that involves helping kids enjoy sports.
With much love and prayers,
August 19, 2009 at 5:14 pm
Susan Lin
Dear Joe,
I am so sorry and saddened to hear about your brother Steve. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Please know that your friends are here, too, and that you can count on us should you need anything in these difficult times.
Susan
August 19, 2009 at 11:58 pm
mark navarro
Our deepest condolences to the Aiello family especially Joyce and Anthony.
it was fun having steve coach me through the years i have played baseball and it is sad to see someone who has taught me so much about the sport go like that. Steve was a cool guy and it was fun going to cooperstown with him it was a cool experience going since i never went when i was little. There were so many memories we had with Steve and he will be missed dearly. We will always be here if you guys were ever to need anything.
sincerely,
Mark and the rest of the Navarro Family
August 20, 2009 at 12:10 am
Sergio Gallegos
Aiello Family:
My deepest condolences to your family on your loss. It saddened me to hear that Steve is no longer among us. The Steve I knew was a gentle, caring man with family values that many could only dream of having. It was my pleasure to have worked side by side with him for over 5 years. There are so many good times and good memories that I remember from working together with him. One of the many things I admired about Steve, was that he loved his family with a passion. Family always came first.
Steve had a priceless gift of putting smiles on people’s faces and making them feel at ease. Steve will truly be missed.
GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY.
August 20, 2009 at 12:55 am
Jean (Fox) Anderson
Dear Aiello family,
I was in Steve’s high school class of ’78 and we became good friends during that time. I live in Oregon now, and word of his passing has reached me. I am so saddened by this news. Our time together was fleeting but indelible. The last time I saw him was at our 20 year reunion, and as usual, he had me laughing out loud. Ken Morton, one of our h.s. teachers, is a good friend of mine and lives close by, and he and I were just sharing some fond memories of Steve on the 4th of July. We are both heartbroken for all of you and know that his absence will be deeply felt, and is by us as well. He had a way of making you feel like you were the most special person in his world whenever he saw you. My first name is Mahala, and he was one of the few people who called me by that name, only he added his own special pronunciation of it that always brought a smile to my face. He was a very special person with a very big heart… and I’ve missed him over the years and am so sad over this news. You are all in my thoughts and prayers now, and he is in my heart forever. May he rest in peace.
M. Jean (Fox) Anderson
August 20, 2009 at 2:45 am
Sandy and Mike Walter
Mike and I would like to express out deepest sympathies to Joyce and Anthony. And also to the families on both sides, as they have lost a brother, uncle, friend and brother in law. Mike and Sandy
August 20, 2009 at 4:44 am
Jim Jackson
Joyce & Anthony,
It breaks our hearts and saddens us deeply that this has happened. Your family has been so incredibly kind to us, as well as so many others at Toluca and East Valley.
We will miss Steve and his big smile. He was always so easy to talk to and a pleasure to be around. We will always remember and be thankful for the time and dedication he put forth to helping make Toluca an incredible place to play baseball. His love for the game and Toluca may have been great, but the love that he had for his family and that you all shared with each other is truly inspirational.
Know that we love you both and if you need anything at all, or if you just want someone to talk to, we are here for you guys.
Jim, Amy, Meg, Emily, and Bear.
August 20, 2009 at 10:15 am
Duke Williams
There are not any adequate words to sum up a man of Steve’s worth to myself and every life he touched. He was a friend to everyone he met and a brother to everyone he loved. It didn’t matter if you hadn’t seen him in a day or if years had passed, he would welcome you with a smile and a greeting/joke you could not help but to return with a smile and a laugh.
Steve’s friendship, love, kindness and compassion are shining examples for us to follow as a parent, husband, son, brother, uncle, friend and volunteer.
I will miss Steve and will forever remember his laugh, smile and the joy he instilled in those around him.
August 20, 2009 at 7:12 pm
The Teverbaughs
Joyce and Anthony, you’re in our thoughts and prayers. We’re one of the many Toluca Baseball families who have nothing but good memories of Steve and will remember him fondly forever.
August 20, 2009 at 9:42 pm
ira
I had the honor and privlidge to coach with Steve at Cooperstown. He is what friends are about…I don’t know a lot of people that two days before one of his best friends, Frank Micili, was scheduled to leave for Cooperstown and was unable to attend for medical reasons, would shut everything down to cover for his friend by taking a group of about 15 boys that he has not coached or work with across the country to play baseball. Thank you Steve for allowing me to coach with you in Cooperstown and learn from you as I saw how you interatcted with the players and your son.
Ira
August 21, 2009 at 12:39 am
Leslie Tunzi
Joyce and Anthony,
May God Bless you both and help you through this horrible time.
All of our prayers are with you. Steve was a great guy.
The Tunzi Family
August 21, 2009 at 3:46 am
Bill and Cooper Murphy
Joyce and Anthony,
The thing I remember the about Steve is his smile. Steve had a great smile. Everytime Cooper or I would run into him, that smile was there to greet us.
Someone once said that the measure of a mans greatness is in the number of friends he has. I considered Steve a friend, as did many others. He was a great guy, a great Dad and a great husband. He will be missed and he will be remembered fondly.
Bill and Cooper
August 21, 2009 at 5:03 am
Bill Nelson
I was shocked when I heard that Steve had left us. I have known him for a long time and always lent me a kind ear when I needed someone to talk to or just enjoy a fine martini with. Steve was a kind soul that will be missed.
To Joyce, Anthony and the rest of the family, my thoughts and deepest sympathy goes out to you all.
Bill
August 21, 2009 at 5:43 pm
Jose Leon
Joyce and Anthony,
Wishing both everything you need to get through this difficult time. God needed a good servant in Heaven….Steve will be missed.
Jose
August 21, 2009 at 7:22 pm
Pat Sims & Family
We have a short time to make an impact on most and Steve was able to do that for me as well as my family. Steve is a worthy example to follow, a quality man who gave from is heart ever chance he got.
We may not be aware that we are being cherished, loved and remembered for generations, but there is no doubt we are.
I remember the RAVENS! Who knew a group of 7 & 8 year olds could do so much just playing a season of baseball. They touched our hearts just like Steve did and he helped create that enviornment of learning and working together. The kids were the stars and the parents were the fans, the best example of youth sports I’ve ever been part of. What a team!
What a guy! Thank you Steve.
August 21, 2009 at 11:04 pm
Anne Bell
Dear Joyce and Anthony,
Nice guys are hard to find. Steve was just so nice. I loved seeing him (and you all) at Miceli’s. I am really going to miss him. My thoughts and my prayers are with you. You are wonderful people and I care deeply.
Love always,
Anne Bell
Your Singing Waitress
August 22, 2009 at 2:08 am
Mark Stewart
I was blessed with the opportunity to know Steve both as a co worker and as a friend. There was not a more decent or generous person on this planet and he will be missed greatly. He doesn’t leave a mere hole or a chasm: He leaves an abyss.
Steve and I shared a love of popular music. He would have cleaned up on “Name That Tune” (60′s and 70′s version).
Steve worked in our office for many years. He was the glue that held the firm together. Like all office environments, ours can be a bit tribal, but Steve had the ability to get along well with everyone! If you wanted to grab lunch with him, you had to book a few days in advance, because his warm company was always in demand. When you walked to lunch in Downtown Los Angeles with Mr. Aiello, you would have to stop often while Steve spoke with every 7th person on the street. I called him “The Mayor Of Figueroa Street”. When news of his passing hit like a ton of bricks, it didn’t just hit our immediate office. The security guards, the delivery people, and the maintenance people were all shocked and saddened by the loss of those twinkling eyes and smiling face.
In the past, I could get Steve to meet me for a bike ride or grab him for a hockey or baseball game. That got more difficult over time because of his loving commitment to his family. There was always a baseball field to be groomed, or a game of catch to be had. His love of family was impressive. His computer screen bore the image of Anthony on the baseball field and his love of Joyce was worn openly.
Comfort for us all is elusive right now. Perhaps these words of Henry David Thoreau might help:
“Even the death of friends will inspire us as much as their lives…. Their memories will be encrusted over with sublime and pleasing thoughts, as monuments of other men are overgrown with moss; for our friends have no place in the graveyard.”
August 22, 2009 at 4:46 am
JJ, Tracy & Salvador Johnson
Joyce and Anthony,
I want you to know that the Toluca Titans had an Angel in the out field at Cooperstown this past week. You could feel his presence.
We were shocked to hear about this tragic loss. JJ and I talked and said we would always remember when ever you saw Steve you would get a great smile and hug. He always had time to chat and enjoy the moment and you knew you would always get a helping hand. My favorite talks were not only about baseball but of the Rose Bowl Parade and his envolvement.
He will be missed, loved and never forgotten. The boys did him proud in Cooperstown and wore his initials on their hats with pride and respect. It was comforting to know he was up there keeping and eye on us. I wish you and Anthony the strength to move forward because Steve would not want it any other way. Peace be with you.
Fondly,
JJ, Tracy and Salvador
August 22, 2009 at 5:26 am
The Eaton Family
Joyce and Anthony – we only heard of Steve’s passing today – as we sit here with tears running down our face we remember the Toluca Games – and actually afterwards when we finally got to all go to dinner – and the laughs we had!!!! We remember the good times – the kids growing up – all of us saying we’ll get together soon – and all of our lives going in crazy directions. It is sad that we only get to tell each other how much fun and how much we loved our time together when something like this happens but if we hold on to the laughter, the fun and the great games we had – and times we had – we will never forget the Mo’s – and the little local bar that Chad and Anthony played darts and – can’t remember the name – but we will never forget the good times!! We will see you tomorrow – but our prayers are with you now!! Go Ravens and the late nights sitting together and laughing!! All of our Love!!!! Jim, Julie & Chad Eaton
August 22, 2009 at 5:00 pm
Aleida & Eric Stones
Joyce and Anthony, We are very saddened to hear of Steve’s passing. We are very,very sorry about your loss and can truly say we know what you’re going through. When our lives got turned upside down last year I couldn’t image how I’d get through each day. The good news is you will and when you see or hear something that triggers tears neither of you should hold them back. It’s perfectly okay to empty your tear bucket. God Bless You both during this extraordinarily difficult time. With out deepest sympathy, Aleida and Eric Stones
August 22, 2009 at 11:25 pm
Laurie Zucchero
Joyce and Anthony,
We are shocked and saddened by the sudden loss of Steve. In my short time knowing him Wynn and I both found him to be a wonderful father and an amazing man. The time and dedication to Toluca Baseball, his smiling face that greeted many of us as we experienced our very first days/ season out on the beautiful fields that I once heard you call “his mistress.” He will be sorely missed. Our thoughts prayers and are with you both.
Laurie, Wynn and Peter
August 22, 2009 at 11:42 pm
JJ, Tracy & Salvador Johnson
Joyce and Anthony,
I want you to know that the Titans wore their hats with Steves’ initials on them with pride and respect. We did have an Angel in our outfield, you could feel Steve’s presence.
The one thing I remember about Steve is that whenever and wherever you saw him you would get a great smile and a hug. My favorite thing to talk to him about was the Rose Bowl Parade.
How Blessed we were to have known him and how blessed Anthony is to be so much like him.
Peace Be With You.
Jeffrey, Tracy and Salvador
August 23, 2009 at 1:13 am
Claire (Bohnett) Mon
On behalf of the entire Bohnett family, I would like to convey our deepest sympathy to the Aiello family, Steve’s wife, Joyce, and son, Anthony. Our families grew up a couple of blocks away from each other in San Roque, with Steve and my brother Anthony in the same grade. I remember Steve’s infectious smile and good humor…everybody loved to see Steve come around!
We are all very saddened by his passing. Our prayers are with you and hope that the memory of all that was good in Steve helps you through this painful time.
Much Love,
Claire (1 of the twins) & the rest of the Bohnetts
August 25, 2009 at 2:34 am
Renzulli Family
Joyce and Anthony, we were out of town when we heard the sad, sad, news and it pained us deeply that we could not be there for Steve’s services. Steve was one in a million. I’m sure, like everyone, Steve had bad days but I can honestly say that I never saw him in a sour mood. He never greeted you without a genuine smile. He was a good example for children and parents alike. His love and devotion for you, Joyce and Anthony, was always evident. I know his loss is profound and the pain great but know that if a man’s success is measured by the number of friends he leaves when he passes, then, Steve was one of the most successful men this town has ever produced. Joyce, Anthony, you will be in our prayers. May God bless you both. Buon’ Anema, Steve.
August 25, 2009 at 11:29 pm
The Morton Family
Dear Joyce and Anthony,
We all were so sorry to hear the news of Steve’s passing. We were unable to attend any of the serivces as we were moving our daughter up to college in SF this past weekend. Please know that we have your family in our thoughts and prayers. Memories are very powerful, and we know that you have many wonderful moments that you will cherish forever.
Take Care – Mark, Cyndi and Nick Morton
September 1, 2009 at 3:00 am
Chris Wilson
Joyce and Anthony,
Our family has just returned from Cooperstown and I am fairly sure that Steve has taken up permanent residence at the Dreamspark. He and Hector were watching over the boys and girl all week as they excelled beyond all of our wildest imaginations. The kids wore his initial and he was always on our minds.
Anthony, as you pass through this impossible time of reconciling the loss of your wonderful daddy, I hope you will begin to see the blessing that God gave you in gracing you with an entire week with your dad in a place that was so special to both of you. We are so sorry to have missed the ceremony celebrating his life but what a tribute to your dad and to you and your mom to have so many of your dad’s friends present. There are literally thousands of people who are thinking of you daily and I hope that brings you some comfort.
Joyce, words can’t express how sorry we are for you and for Anthony. What a guy you married – from the nights in the Lounge, our New Years Eve card parties, Halloween dinners, Thanksgiving morning newspaper deliveries, “nutty” baseball problems, and the many days and nights of Toluca baseball. I’ll never forget how pissed Steve was when we used field #2 (outfield only of course) immediately after Steve sent out an email closing it due to rain. “Chris, I guess the rules don’t apply to you!” “Steve, You mean we couldn’t use the grass?” How lucky for my family that the two of you stopped by the house the Sunday before we left for NY and we shared an hour in my garage talking about Steve’s trip and his helpful reminders of the things we needed to bring.
You and Anthony have a new and different life in front of you now and I know that all of us stand ready to help you get on with it. We love you and Anthony so much.
The Wilson Family
September 1, 2009 at 3:05 am
Nadine Kassity-Krich
Dearest Aiello Family,
I was a classmate of Steve’s in High School at Bishop, graduating class of 1978. I am so sad to hear the news of Steve’s passing. He was such a heartfelt soul, always smiling and always there! Although, I only shared 4 years in high school with him, he left a mark on my soul and I will miss his presence. The planet will miss his laughter, smile and un-ending support. I hope we all continue to feel the gift of his life around us.
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Nadine Kassity-Krich
February 1, 2010 at 1:26 am
Omar Vallejo
Dear Joyce & Anthony,
I am very saddened by Steve’s passing and want to extend my deepest condolences and fond memories of a truly great man.
Throughout the several years of playing softball with Steve I can always remember his Wonderful Smile, Laugh and Positive Outlook. He was such a giver and a true Gentleman.
These memories will never fade.
Love,
Omar